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Apologizing properly
Say what you did, say it was your fault, and offer to put it right. Skip the "if" and the "but". Listen first, and don't demand forgiveness.
Evidence:
Some
Takes:
10 minutes to prepare, 10 to say it
Recovering from a mistake at work
Tell the right person quickly, bring a fix, apologize once without grovelling, and treat yourself the way you'd treat a colleague who'd done the same.
Evidence:
Some
Takes:
an hour, then a few days