Job interview nerves

Prepare five or six stories you can tell well, practice them out loud, treat the racing heart as readiness, and slow your breathing before you go in.

• Evidence: Some
• Takes: a few hours over the week before
• Work

Right now

1. Breathe out slowly for two minutes. In for about 4, out for about 6 to 8. The slow exhale page has the details.
2. Tell yourself your body is getting ready. A fast heart and sharp focus are what your body does before anything that matters. You don’t need to get rid of them.
3. Read your three best stories once. Just the headlines. Then put your notes away.

Before

• Find out what they’re looking for. Go through the job advert and underline the four or five skills they mention most. Those are what you’ll be asked about.
• Prepare five or six stories, using STAR. For each one: the Situation, the Task you had, the Action you took, and the Result. Many interviewers ask “Tell me about a time when…” questions, and one good story can answer several of them. Worry about communicating, such as finding the right words, is one of the main kinds of interview anxiety [1]. Having stories ready means you aren’t searching for an example on the spot.
• Practice out loud, not in your head. Say each story to a friend, to your phone’s voice recorder, or to the wall. Aim for about two minutes each. You’ll find the gaps fast.
• Prepare the predictable questions. Why this job, why you’re leaving, a weakness, a question for them. Write a short answer to each.
• Sort the practical details the day before. Route, clothes, printed CV, or a tested video link and a quiet room. One less thing to go wrong.
• Sleep and eat normally. Staying up late to over-prepare usually backfires. sleepgood.now has tips if nerves keep you awake.

During

• Pause before you answer. Two seconds feels long to you and normal to them. It also gives you time to pick the right story.
• Answer the question, then stop. Nervous people often keep talking. Finish your result and let them ask the next question.
• If you go blank, say so briefly and ask for a moment, or ask them to repeat the question.
• Take a slow breath out between questions while they’re writing notes.

After

• Write down the questions you were asked, and which answers went well or badly, while you remember. That’s your preparation for the next one.
• Send a short thank-you note the same day if that’s normal in your field.
• Don’t replay it all evening. Do something that takes your attention. You’ve already written down what to improve.
• If you don’t get it, ask for feedback, and see after a rejection. If it’s one of many, see getting through a long job search.

For general pre-meeting calm, including caffeine and if-then plans, see staying calm before a difficult meeting.

Why this works

Nerves cost a little. Researchers have identified several kinds of interview anxiety: worries about how you communicate, how you look, social discomfort, performance, and visible signs like fidgeting. Together they predicted interview scores [1]. A meta-analysis of 30 studies found that more anxious candidates got slightly lower ratings from interviewers, with an average correlation of about −0.19 [2].

Nerves don’t mean you’d be bad at the job. In a study of applicants for student residence assistant jobs, interview anxiety had almost no link with how well people later did the job [3].

Reframing and breathing help a little. A meta-analysis of randomized trials found that learning to see stress arousal as useful improved performance slightly, and a bit more on public performance tasks than on written tests [4]. A meta-analysis of 12 randomized trials found breathwork lowered stress by a small-to-medium amount, though most studies had a moderate risk of bias [5].

Rated Some. The calming steps have meta-analyses behind them, but none were tested in real job interviews. STAR preparation and practicing out loud are standard advice from careers services, with little research on them directly.

Topics: Work, Interviews, Nerves, Preparation, Breathing

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