Getting through a long job search

A long search wears most people down, and that's not a personal failing. Give your days structure, set targets for effort rather than offers, and get skills and support at the same time.

• Evidence: Strong
• Takes: a few hours a week
• Hard stretches

Right now

1. Write down this week’s effort target, not an outcome. For example: “8 tailored applications, 2 messages to contacts, 1 practice interview.” You control effort. You don’t control offers.
2. Pick a start and stop time for tomorrow. A search with set hours leaves room for the rest of your life.
3. Tell one person how it’s actually going. Not the brave version. Support is one of the ingredients that makes job search programs work [1].

Before

Set up the search so it can run for months without grinding you down.

• Know that it’s not just you. A meta-analysis of 104 studies found that people out of work had lower wellbeing than people in work [2]. A later analysis of 237 cross-sectional and 87 long-term studies concluded that being out of work causes the distress, rather than the other way round [3]. Feeling flat or tense during a long search is the expected result of a hard situation.
• Give your week a shape. Among people out of work, structure in their time, social contact, money and ways of coping were linked to how well they were doing, more strongly than their qualifications or background were [2]. Fixed hours, a regular place to work and a weekly plan provide some of the structure a job used to.
• Build skills and motivation together. A meta-analysis of 47 job search programs found that participants were 2.67 times as likely (in odds) to find work as people who didn’t take part. The programs worked only when they taught job search skills and boosted motivation. Helpful parts included practicing how to present yourself, setting goals, being proactive and getting support [1].

During

The weekly routine.

• Set goals for effort, every week. Review them on Friday. The weekly review works well for this.
• Practice out loud. Rehearse your answers to common interview questions with a friend, or record yourself. Self-presentation training was one of the components linked to better results [1]. See Job interview nerves.
• Plan for setbacks before they come. The JOBS program, tested in large randomized trials in Michigan, taught people to expect rejections and plan how they’d respond. In a trial with 928 recently unemployed adults, it led to better-paid, more satisfying jobs, and kept motivation higher among those still looking [4].
• Reach out to people you know. A short, specific message is easier to answer than “let me know if you hear of anything”.

After

For when a search drags on, or after each round of rejections.

• Look at your numbers, not your mood. Applications sent, replies, interviews. If you’re getting interviews but no offers, work on interviews. If you’re getting no replies, change the applications or the roles you target.
• Keep something else in your week. Volunteering, a course, exercise, time with friends. Exercise helps mood and gives the day an anchor; see liftgood.now.
• Take one full day off a week. A search that never stops makes every rejection feel bigger. For individual knocks, see After a rejection.
• Join a structured program if one is available, for example through a public employment service. That’s where the strongest evidence is.

Why this works

The evidence that a long search is hard comes from two large meta-analyses [2][3]. The evidence on what helps is also strong. A meta-analysis of 47 programs found clear effects on finding work, mainly when skills and motivation were both addressed [1]. In the JOBS trials, two years later, people who had taken the workshop were more likely to be in work, earned more, and had less low mood than the comparison group. People who started with the lowest motivation and confidence gained the most [5]. Programs also helped long-term job seekers less than people who had only recently lost work [1].

Rated Strong. Meta-analyses and large randomized trials agree. The caveat: these were structured programs with trainers and groups. Doing parts of it alone, as this page suggests, is likely to help less.

Topics: Job Search, Unemployment, Work, Goals, Structure, Setbacks

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