Contributing to something

People who help others tend to report more wellbeing, and kindness experiments show a modest lift. But the trial evidence for volunteering is thin, so do it because it matters to you.

Short answer

Helping other people, through volunteering, small kindnesses or simply being useful, is linked to higher wellbeing, especially a sense of meaning. Experiments where people do acts of kindness show a small to moderate lift in mood. But the few randomized trials of volunteering haven’t confirmed the benefits seen in surveys, so treat it as worth doing rather than a sure way to feel better.

The idea

Contributing means doing something that benefits people beyond yourself. It could be formal, like volunteering for a charity, coaching a kids’ team or sitting on a committee. Or informal, like helping a neighbor move, cooking for a friend who’s had a baby, or teaching a colleague something you know.

The link with wellbeing is well documented. A meta-analysis of 201 studies with almost 200,000 people found a modest positive relationship between helping others and wellbeing [1]. A few details matter:

  • The link was stronger for meaning and feeling that life is going well than for day-to-day happiness.
  • Informal helping was linked to more benefit than formal helping.
  • Just counting how often people volunteered showed a weaker link than measuring how helpful and caring they were in general.

Correlation doesn’t prove cause. People who are doing well may have more energy to help. That’s where experiments come in, and they give a mixed picture.

Volunteering. A systematic review of 40 papers found that in long-term studies, volunteers had higher life satisfaction and wellbeing and lower risk of dying during the study. But the experimental studies, including five randomized trials, did not confirm those benefits [2]. The authors concluded there wasn’t enough well-designed research to recommend volunteering as a health measure.

Acts of kindness. A meta-analysis of 27 experiments, with about 4,000 people, found that doing kind things for others had a small-to-medium effect on the helper’s wellbeing. The authors found no sign that only positive studies had been published [3].

Spending on others. A large replication found that spending money on someone else made people a little happier than spending it on themselves, but the difference was small in the largest experiment and one of the three experiments found nothing [4]. See Spending on experiences and other people.

How to use it

  1. Start with what you’re already good at. Fixing bikes, explaining forms, cooking, listening. Contribution that uses a skill you have is easier to keep up.
  2. Go informal first. Offer help to one person you know this week. Informal helping showed a stronger link with wellbeing than formal volunteering [1].
  3. If you want something regular, pick a fixed slot. Two hours every other Saturday is easier to keep than “when I can”. Look for local food banks, libraries, sports clubs, park groups or mentoring schemes.
  4. Choose something with other people in it. Contributing alongside others adds social contact, which has its own benefits. It’s also a good way in if you’re new in a city.
  5. Choose causes that fit your values. Helping out of guilt or pressure is harder to sustain. The values page can help you pick.

Common mistakes

  • Doing it to feel better. The benefits are modest and vary from person to person. If you help mainly to fix your mood and the mood doesn’t change, you’ll likely stop.
  • Taking on too much. Saying yes to every request can turn helping into a burden. A small, regular commitment beats a big one you resent.
  • Only counting formal volunteering. Helping a friend, a parent or a stranger counts too, and it may matter more [1].
  • Ignoring who you’re helping. Good contribution meets a real need. Ask what’s useful rather than assuming.

Evidence

The link between helping and wellbeing is consistent across a very large body of studies, but it’s mostly correlational and modest in size [1]. Kindness experiments show a real but small-to-medium effect [3]. The randomized trials of volunteering are few and didn’t confirm the survey findings [2], and the spending-on-others effect shrank in replication [4].

Rated Some. Helping others is very likely good for you in a modest way, and it’s good for them. The size of the benefit, and whether formal volunteering adds much beyond everyday kindness, is uncertain.

Try this week

Do one useful thing for someone outside your household this week, ideally using a skill you already have. Offer it specifically: “I’m free Saturday morning, can I help you with the garden?”

Sources

  1. [1]Hui BPH, Ng JCK, Berzaghi E, et al. (2020). Rewards of kindness? A meta-analysis of the link between prosociality and well-being. Psychological Bulletin. Systematic review / meta-analysis
  2. [2]Jenkinson CE, Dickens AP, Jones K, et al. (2013). Is volunteering a public health intervention? A systematic review and meta-analysis of the health and survival of volunteers. BMC Public Health. Systematic review / meta-analysis
  3. [3]Curry OS, Rowland LA, Van Lissa CJ, et al. (2018). Happy to help? A systematic review and meta-analysis of the effects of performing acts of kindness on the well-being of the actor. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology. Systematic review / meta-analysis
  4. [4]Aknin LB, Dunn EW, Proulx J, et al. (2020). Does spending money on others promote happiness? A registered replication report. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Replication study

Topics: Volunteering, Kindness, Helping, Meaning, Community

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